Newcountrygal, 60

I will make time for that someone special. I am looking for a professional and educated person who is caring. I want someone who loves their kids as much as I love mine. I am a very giving and loving person and I want the same. I have a good sense of humor and would like someone who is funny and kind.Please only guys from Wichita and surrounding area and non-smokers preferred but able to compromise on the smoking issue.
My idea of a perfect date is: he should be able to have lots of fun and go with the flow. I am outgoing but @ first kind of shy,and no,not concerned about looks like some women on here. However, clean hair, clean face , u know, good hygiene. I figure if you take care of yourself on the outside, gives enough of an impression on how you take care of things on the indside AND, dress down/every day clothes, is cool too! I also am not looking for an instant BF and NOT looking for anything dealing withfriends with fringe benefits. Communication is the key to a good relationship and if you dont have that then you dont have anything!