Gentl41, 54

I'm looking that someone special, l love country Hello My name is Vinny. I'm pretty straight forward and a simple person. I don't believe in small talk. I believe putting all of my card out on the table and see where it gets me. I believe in trust. trust is key to a relationship. I also believe in honesty. I'm always honest. If you ask me a question I'll answer you. I'm not shy at all and will not refuse to answer any question.
I don't believe in playing games beating around the bush. I was married for 13 years and we agreed to do and say everything that we believed is the most honest conversation as we can have.
I live Paterson, New Jersey. I'm Widowed for about 2 1/2 years now am ready to get back out there.
I'm 41 yrs. old,235lbs, I have a small home business and am on a fixed income, I enjoy fishing,camping, hiking, and other outdoor activities, I love all the seasons, I like good music, movies, good food, I like all water sports, I like people who are honest and straight forward and that are loyal., I like good conversation, and am a bit of a charmer.my friends say, I have a great sense of humor and love making people laugh, I like talking on the phone or chatting on any messenger, I don't drink, do drugs and am STD free.
I'm also drama free and have no other women in my life except family, and a couple of married friends.
Let me know what chat messenger you have and I'll add you we can chat.
Everyone needs someone who's honest and trustworthy and I know those are just words
I love all interests. I never thought I could find love again since my beautiful Amber was taken from so soon in a tragic car accident 2 1/2 yrs. ago. She was my light and my has a hole with out her. We agreed that if one of us passed away we should now weep for the other but only for a short time and grieve no longer than we must.
The accident left me disabled but not enough to keep me from walking, talking, and loving. My wife and I were married for 13 yrs. and we we